Hi you all, its been quite a while...i know...i know:-) but am back. I have been feeling quiet guilty for noting posting anything but i realised that there is no need of posting an article just for the sake of doing so, it's better when i do so while being sincere and at the same time feeling that what i am posting has also ministered into my life as well as other people. I have been busy with school work and it's been crazy but am glad that the semester is over.
Sometime back i was having lunch with a friend together with an acquaintance. At some point one of them started complaining of a friend who always calls or checks in only when she needs money or wants a treat. He feels drained when she's around and the friendship only favours one side. Am sure so many people have experienced this at one point in there lives where you have this buddy and you'd rather avoid than tell them the truth. To be honest, it takes a lot of strength and boldness to do that.
Until people learn to be a little bit "selfish" about this whole friendship idea, we'll always suffer. we need to be true to our selves as well as other people. we need to gather enough strength to shed off these people who don't add any value into our lives. We cant please everyone around us.
We need to take this as our own initiative, make up our mind that this kind of friendship has to come to an end. Yet again, its one thing to make up our mind and another thing to put the decision into action.
For the sake of our well being, lets shed off what we don't need and surround ourselves with people who are worth our time and company.
Sometime back i was having lunch with a friend together with an acquaintance. At some point one of them started complaining of a friend who always calls or checks in only when she needs money or wants a treat. He feels drained when she's around and the friendship only favours one side. Am sure so many people have experienced this at one point in there lives where you have this buddy and you'd rather avoid than tell them the truth. To be honest, it takes a lot of strength and boldness to do that.
Until people learn to be a little bit "selfish" about this whole friendship idea, we'll always suffer. we need to be true to our selves as well as other people. we need to gather enough strength to shed off these people who don't add any value into our lives. We cant please everyone around us.
We need to take this as our own initiative, make up our mind that this kind of friendship has to come to an end. Yet again, its one thing to make up our mind and another thing to put the decision into action.
For the sake of our well being, lets shed off what we don't need and surround ourselves with people who are worth our time and company.
