Thursday 28 March 2013

HAVE A MIND OF YOUR OWN.

Life is always full of situations where we have  to make choices. Life in itself is a choice because one can choose either to live or become suicidal. If we make the right choices then the outcome will be positive. The aftermath of the alternative will definitely be negative.Not making a choice about any situation is still a negative choice. What I mean by this is, if  we always wait for others to to make choices for us. Always flippant  about everything. Whenever  asked for ones personal opinion on anything the response will always be "you decide'', '' I don't care " or " either way is fine with me'' even on important  matters.These are the lazy brains; always bent too quickly to listen and go for other people's opinions unable to stand on their own. They flow in too many directions.
Such people normally are not confident  of themselves. They are never assets in the society because they cannot invest in any kind of relationship; talk about business to friendship or any other kind of a relationship.
The  remedy to this whole idea boils down to  confidence. To become a self-assertive and self-motivated person, one has to be self-esteemed which brings about the idea of confidence. Self-esteem is brought about by self-love; Ones own happiness in thoughts and feelings being totally important.